Everyone likes a good guy… for a friend, that is. But women are attracted to guys who are confident, are intriguing and who aren’t always there. Yes, they don’t want a lap dog who’s simply waiting for any scraps they
could give. They want someone fun, daring and bold, someone who would kiss them senseless after a date instead of someone who would kiss their cheek, or even worse, offer their hand. Here are top reasons why being the good guy can kill a woman’s attraction for you.
1. Being a nice guy will make her take you for granted. Yes, if you’re always around to help her, drive her, run her errands, and talk to her whenever she wants to pour out her problems, she’s going to take you for granted and think of you as a friend. Someone who’s always there when she needs someone, but not someone she can even consider being attracted to.
To attract a woman, you need to have your own life, and don’t always come running whenever she calls. A woman is attracted to a man who intrigues her, who seems to be hard to get. And if you’re always there, how can she have the time to miss you? So don’t always be available for her. Make her be the one to come to you at times.
2. No woman wants to be put in a pedestal. Ever wonder why the girl you keep complimenting and showering attention to acts nicely toward you but doesn’t seem attracted to you? Well, even though women love being praised, if you’re always telling her she’s so beautiful and that you worship the ground she walks on, she won’t be able to see you as an equal and she may not even respect you.
Of course, acting the bad boy and treating her with disrespect will not give you any points as well. What you should do is try to find a middle ground where the two of you can both earn each other’s respects.
3. Acting nice toward her will make her feel manipulated. Okay, admit it, why are you really acting nice toward her? It’s because you want her to be attracted to you, you want her approval, her attention, her love in return for being nice to her. Well, women are a lot smarter nowadays, and they’ll know if it’s just an act. Of course, it may not be an act, but a person who’s nice all the time kind of comes across as a phony.
A better strategy would be to simply act like yourself. You can be a gentleman, but don’t let her walk all over you. Women are attracted to those they see as their equals or those they find unable to reach. Don’t always be the nice guy, as it may make you lose the girl.
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