Your ex-girlfriend is gone. She told you she doesn’t love you anymore and your relationship has ended. But you want her back. How do you get her to love you again after all that has been said and done? Here are some tips for success.
1. Give her time.
If you’ve just broken up today, don’t go knocking on her door tomorrow or calling at all sorts of hours or acting desperate to get back with her. This is probably what she is expecting you to do and will just cause her to be more inflexible about the break up. It may even make her lose respect for you, and you can’t love a person you don’t respect.
So give her time to get over the pain of the break up. It will also give you the time to think about what happened to the relationship in the first place, and where each of you went wrong.
2. Focus on yourself.
Take this time apart to focus on yourself and how you can become a better, more confident person. It’s a fact that women are attracted to confident men, and wouldn’t you like to surprise your ex girlfriend the next time you see her?
Instead of 
a man who’s pining away with loneliness for her, here’s someone who looks better than she last saw him and radiates confidence. She’ll be intrigued and will want to find out about what you’ve been up to and what you’ve been doing. The two of you may even get together to “catch up” (but make sure that you’re ready for this first before agreeing to meet and talk with her).
3. Make her remember how it used to be, and how it can be better.
Once the two of you are finally making contact with each other and going on a few “meetings,” make her remember how it used to be, back when both of you were so in love. Act like a gentleman with her, opening doors, saying thank you and basically being courteous.
You could also casually mention about some happy moments you shared together when you were a couple, but keep it light and funny. It will remind her about how your relationship used to be and what made her fall in love with you in the first place.
Also, show her a better you. Maybe she hates it when you smoke, and casually mention that you’ve quit smoking already (if it’s true, that is). It will make her realize that you can change some of your faults, and make her believe that if you do get back together, you may enjoy a better, happier relationship.
You must not give up on love. It’s easy to get your ex girlfriend back as long as you follow the things mentioned above. Be smart in how you try to get her back.
