Qualities That Women Really Want In A Man

1. Confidence and self belief: A man, who is confident in himself, knows how to handle his responsibilities, and who can take charge of any kind of situation is a huge turn on to women. Basically, women get attracted to men who have that winning quality about them and don’t come across as losers. Whatever life throws at them, good or bad, they can take it in their stride and turn it to their advantage. So, if you’re looking to impress women, develop your attitude and your leadership abilities.

2. A great sense of humor: A great sense of humor is one quality that women find absolutely irresistible in a man. Women do not get turned on by men who take everything too seriously and don’t know how to enjoy themselves. A man, who can make his woman laugh and who also has the ability to laugh at himself is very attractive to women. However, know that making her laugh because you’re funny is one thing but being stupid – quite another!

3. Dependability: All women are trying to find a man they can fully and completely depend upon. If a woman can’t count on you, she’ll never be interested in you seriously. No, we don’t mean count on you to take care of her financially because women of today can manage that quite well. But, knowing that she can trust her man to be there for her whenever she needs him (whatever she needs him for) is a huge turn on.

Now that you know what qualities do women want in a man, you know that a great looking car and suave looks are not all that you need. Yes, they may help you to get a women interested in you, but not interested long enough to keep you!

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But most of the times, when couples break up, it’s out of anger and confusion. Couples tend to let their emotions control their decisions; they think with their feelings and not with their mind. Instead of thinking about the repercussions of breaking up, they give in to the feeling of anger.

This results to unfinished business. Yes, you may still be head over heels with your loved one but because you chose to be irrational over whatever it is you are arguing about, both of you end up feeling sorry and regretful.

If you have just been in a relationship that ended abruptly, you may feel that you have made a wrong decision the day after the break up and want to get your ex girlfriend back. The problem is, your ex girlfriend is too angry and hurt by what happened that they won’t even talk to or look at you.

Though your ex girlfriend is avoiding you, you can still win back their love by following the following tips:

1.    Do not beg for her to come back. For some reason, signs of desperation are a turn off. You must show her that you are a strong person and that you want her back for the simple reason that you love her and not because you can’t stand to be alone. It gives off the impression that you are a loser. Winning her back doesn’t require you to go down on your knees and beg for her to take you back. You want her back simply because you love her, that’s all there is to know.

2.    Do not be like a stalker. Refrain from calling her each minute, or flooding her inbox with text messages. Your ex girlfriend will get annoyed and may not want to take you back. Give her space.

3.    Show maturity. Act like a man. Do not be illogical and irrational. If you need to talk to her, seek her in a proper way. Keep your lines of communication open. And if she does decide to talk to you, don’t go blaming her for the wrong things she may have done that caused the relationship to fail. Own up to your mistakes. Be a man. Be ready to apologize and give forgiveness.

4.    Show her that your relationship was not completely a failure. Even though you are now separated, don’t tell your group of friends or other people about the negative things about your relationship. People who recently suffered a break up tend to rant about all the wrong things about their ex—this is not healthy and appropriate. You’ll never know it but it will come to her knowledge that you are talking trash about her.

5.    Do not throw the love away. You still want her back because you still love her so everything you do must be out of love. Do not look at your break up as the final nail on the coffin. Treat it as one of the challenges both of you have to face in your relationship. Never give up on your love. If you do, then she’ll know and feel it. You can’t take her back if she knows you no longer have strong feelings for her.

You have to take things with a grain of salt. You need to be mature enough to realize that things happen for a reason, good or bad, and it is up to you to do something about it. Show your ex girlfriend that you are willing to go the mile just to get her back. You can start by clicking here to receive tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back.

Nice guys finish last right? One big mistake I see a lot of men making when trying to get their ex girlfriend back is the tendency to want to be the nice guy all the time. Yes it’s definitely encouraged while you’re in a relationship with your girl. You should certainly be the nice guy and treat her like a queen.

The problem comes when you’re no longer in a relationship and yet, you STILL treat her like a queen.

Some men do this subconsciously and deep down they believe being the nice guy will somehow make their girl want them back again. This can backfire a great deal “especially” if you were always a nice guy to begin with.

Your ex girlfriend might not be helpful in this respect either. If she is used to you doing everything for her, she might still expect those things from you after the break up; especially if you are still very close to one another.

This is the biggest mistake I see men making and it is perhaps even WORSE than appearing desperate and needy (although they certainly come a very close second).

That might shock you but by jumping to your girl’s every command, you are first telling her, you are just fine with being treated like a doormat and you’ll be there for her whether you’re her boyfriend or not. Second, now she believes there is NO urgency at all for her to come back, and in fact if you are going to treat her this well, she can take her time picking and choosing her next boy toy to play with.

Harsh but true.

Be a man and put your foot down. Stop lending her money every time she asks. Stop doing favours for her she could easily do herself or get someone else to do instead. Stop being at her beg and call just because she might be feeling blue one day and needs some cheering up.

Unavailability will be a slap in the face for her but it will also show you’re not her doormat. It’s a way to show you have some backbone but done in a way that is “classy” and respectable.

The exception of course is that if it’s a critical situation and you are the ONLY one she can turn to, then use your best judgement and don’t turn her down in those special circumstances. You are not her enemy or are you trying to teach her a lesson. You are only setting boundaries to your new relationship and that is all.

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Is It Too Late?

One of the greatest concern a guy will have when trying to get an ex girlfriend back is time slipping away and with it, the chance to get her back. In fact sayings like “absence makes the heart grow fonder” is countered also with “out of sight out of mine”, so sure enough, many are confused and want answers as to whether this invisible “timer” is really doing harm or good.

The truth is, there is no sure way of knowing whether it’s really too late to get your ex girlfriend back. The timer I mentioned is indeed completely in the mind and there is no “real” timer at all.

Unfortunately, or fortunately depending how you look at it, there is no real way of knowing whether it’s too late.

There have been numerous cases of girlfriends going back to their ex after many years apart. Even one case where the couple was apart for 40 years!

The point? Since it’s not something you can control or know the answer to, the only sure thing you can do is either;

• Take the relationship as a lesson learnt and move on, cutting your losses.
• Put a practical plan into place and start moving forward.

The point is you can go one direction OR the other. There is NO staying where you are. Either way, you’ll be doing one or the other.

If you want her back, you need to start following a plan and get on it right away, if not you’ll be indirectly heading down the other path. The only difference being, if it’s not a conscious decision, there won’t be any lessons learnt and you’ll just fall victim to the same problems in your next relationship.

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Then the big dreaded break up occurs and suddenly the rules of the game are no longer familiar.

The dangerous part is, if you don’t educate yourself and be up to date with the rules of the break up game, you might find yourself knee-deep in a heap of emotional crap that you’ll carry for months or years to come.

I see a relationship as a contract with a set of agreements. Once a relationship ceases to be, that contract is gone and now it’s every man for himself. Here’s 6 Rules you need to be aware of to help you survive you break up.

Rule #1 – Do not give her the same amount of attention you did during your relationship.

It’s normal to be showering each other with love and attention during a relationship, but once that relationship is no more, offering the same amount of that attention, is deadly because it envelopes both of you in a false sense of security and “hope”.

Hope is deadly if it’s fake and headed to the town of nowhere.

Remember she is NOT your girlfriend anymore, giving her all the same attention will only drain you in the long-run and prevent you from moving forward. Not to say you need to be rude and ignore her, but firmly start to establish boundaries with what you will and won’t do.

Rule #2 – Do not remain best friends if you think it will eventually lead to you getting back together.

There is nothing wrong with being friends with an ex, but ONLY if you know where you stand and won’t challenge to cross that line. This means happy being friends and ONLY friends.

If you still want her back, this is not your case and choosing to remain friends will benefit her more than you. Believe me, she’ll be happy and comfortable just to be friends if that’s all you’re offering to her. On the other hand, if you remove that extra comfortable from her, she might be shocked into making some positive moves towards your direction.

Comforting her during the break up is also not wise as you’ll be draining your own energy, so where does that leave you?

Rule #3 – Do not stop her from seeing other guys.

Often, if your ex is flaunting the fact that she is seeing other guys, it’s a sign that she’s doing so to check your reaction. Even if she’s not flaunting it, subconsciously she’s wondering if you would care and how you would react to finding out.

In other words, your reaction to this is quite important and could lead to either added points your way or minuses depending on how you go about it.

Do not restrict what she wants to do. If she is happy to see someone else, give them that chance and show her you are only happy to see her happy too.

Rule #4 – Do not try to control, manipulate or try to make her jealous.

If these were a problem during the relationship, it’s a good time to start cleaning your act up and show her you are NOT that guy anymore.

Perhaps being a bit protective and controlling was fine while in a relationship, but continuing to do so after your break up is not attractive or desirable.

Be supportive but also keep your distance. You are both grown-ups, no need to feel the need to protect and guard all the time.

Rule #5 Never try to keep tabs on where she is going or what she is doing.

This means constantly calling and checking up on her to see what she is up to, or constantly accusing her of being with someone else. Sure this might have been normal to do during your relationship, but now that sort of behaviour will only get you arrest.

Practice being indifferent to what she does or who she’s with. The best way to do that is not to obsess about her 24/7, but to keep busy with enough going on in your own life to truly not have time to care about hers anymore.

Rule #6 – Don’t try to use the usual tactics to woo her back.

Romancing with gifts, flowers, cute cards and such were sweet during your relationship, but doing so now, will only make her feel weird about being around you.

These acts of love will seem like an after-thought now that you have broken up. Where were these gestures when you were together? She won’t buy your sincerity if you go down this route. It’s best to save your money and work on other means to get her back.

These rules of the break up won’t be easy for someone who has just come from a relationship. Nevertheless they are important to note and keep in mind, not only for your wellbeing but to help you get back together in the future.

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If you’re going through a nasty break up right now, it’s likely your ex girlfriend has felt a disconnect much before your break up.

An emotional disconnect happens first before she is comfortable with separating from you physically. Your natural tendency to mend your own broken-heart and rejection is to bridge that gap through an act of over-reaching.

You want to “make up” for whatever you feel she felt was lacking in the relationship by now acting overly loving, overly communicative and overly abundant in emotions and romance. Whatever you feel a need to make up for, you’ll now want to lay it on her tenfold.

Well, this excess of attention is a natural reaction to your own rejected ego.

However there are consequences for laying on too much of something too quickly. As I have mentioned, an emotional disconnect happens first and once this has been established, and whether she knows it consciously or not, she will “resist” certain behaviours from you before she will allow her walls to come down.

The confusing part is some women will choose to leave just to receive that extra bit of attention from you. However, this is often in the minority and unless you are 100% sure the reason she left was due to a lack of attention, you’ll need to adapt a different approach if you want to win her back.

In essence there is also another negative appeal to your excess over-reaching; it cries out that you’re desperate and can’t live without her.

Perhaps that is true and maybe you think that will somehow appeal to her.

Unfortunately, it’s great to tell a girl you can’t live without her “during” a romantic relationship, but it’s a completely different ballgame when you’re NOT in a relationship.

What this is essentially telling her is that you’re “weak” and not “man” enough to handle life without a girl by your side. It also puts her in quite an awkward and undesirable position because she already feels guilty from the break up and now you’re wanting to make her feel more guilty.

Resist the urge to be desperate and indulge in the pity-me attitude.

Remember, your “reaction” to the break up will determine the possibility of her coming back. There is a small window of opportunity after each break up which gives you the biggest chance to get her back. Screwing things up too many times will let you stack up a whole heap of negative points which close that window more each time.

Stop being desperate for her and instead be strong about anything she dishes at you.

You can show your love and care without needing to be desperate and it’s that quiet and confident attitude that she will admire from you.

Resist acting desperate, this includes:

• Repeatedly telling her you love her.
• Repeatedly apologizing for anything and everything.
• Calling and contacting her non-stop.
• Asking and begging, pleading for her to give you another chance.
• Asking all the time why she left and not being satisfied with ANY answer she gives you.

Instead adopt the behaviour of a reassured and confident man who doesn’t need anyone else to complete him:

• Assure her you still care and love her but you will also be fine without her.
• Stand up for yourself if you feel she is starting to treat you like a doormat.
• Practice No Contact and remain in NC with consistency.
• Keep your word – whatever you say, make sure you stick to it and never break a promise (provided its in line with everything above).

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